I find myself in the same situation that I have been in before.
My pregnancy made it just past 7 1/2 weeks, but then stopped growing.
I feel broken, numb, and in a state of shock. I really thought this time was going to be different. I’ve been feeling the twinges and small symptoms that go along with pregnancy and I was holding onto hope so tightly.
Around 6 weeks we saw a healthy heartbeat. I went on my way thinking that this time was going to work. That I have been through my trials with infertility and that I was finally being granted my healthy pregnancy, because there was no way that this could happen to me a sixth time.
But, it did happen again.
Before the ultrasound I told my hubby that for the first time I felt calm and I felt that we may finally have the baby we have prayed so hard for. But, as soon as I saw the screen and the dates that our baby was measuring I knew that things were not going my way. When you’ve seen enough ultrasounds go wrong you know what to look for and my tears started rolling down.
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Oh Stephanie. My heart broke in pieces reading this post. I was so hopeful that this was it for you, too. I am so sorry. I am sending so many prayers to you. xo
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Thank you for all of your prayers. Hopefully things turn around for both of us in 2016. xo
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I am beyond devistated for you. I wish I could wrap you in a giant hug and cry with you.
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Thank You!! xo
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I’m so so sorry, I’m devastated for you both. I’m so sorry xx
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Thank You. xo
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I’m beyond sorry, I really thought this was your “one”!!! Sending you much love & strength. Xx
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Thank you for the love. XO
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I am so so sorry there are no words xx
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Thank You. XO
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I am so, so sorry. This is beyond unfair. I wish I could take the hurt away from you. Sending you so much love and care.
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Thank you for the love. XO
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I’m so sorry girl 😦 I am so mad that it didn’t work for you. This is so not fair and I can only hope they can give you some answers 😦
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Thank You. I hope to find answers and be able to move forward with some new possibilities. XO
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My heart just sank reading your story, you have been through too much. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this heartbreaking time.
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Thank You!! XO
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I am so so sorry! It is such a horrible thing to go through… You are in my prayers.
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Thank you for the prayers. XO
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I’m so sorry. Sending so much love to you and your husband.
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Thank You. XO
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There are no words. I was so hoping with you that you’d be able to post a happy post this year. My heart breaks for you. Sending you thoughts of comfort and peace, and many prayers.
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Thank You. Hopefully 2016 will be my year to post happy posts. 🙂 XO
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I am sorry. I too was hoping this was it and everything was going to be perfect! I am crying at this news. I am sending you hugs and support!
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Thank you for your hugs and support…I really appreciate it. XO
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I am so so sorry. Sending hugs and wishing I could somehow make things better x x x
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Thank You!! xo
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Heartbreaking. Im so sorry.
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Thank You. XO
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Your situation is all to familiar to us. We just lost our 5th baby within 3 failed pregnancies and all within the year. This is so heart wrenching. I feel your pain. I have such a strong desire for all of us fighting so hard to finally get what we’ve been praying and pleading for. I am so sorry for your loss. I know there’s nothing we can really say or do to help the situation…just keep in mind you have many people who love and care for you. You’re not only in their prayers, but the thoughts and prayers of the many of us who follow your story. I hope you can find comfort and love from those around you. 💗
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I am so sorry that you have to go through this as well. It’s not fair. Thank you for your prayers. I hope that 2016 is better for both of us. Xo
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I’m devastated to hear about this. So sorry about your loss. Stay healthy and clear your thoughts for the next course of action. You will be fine! God bless you…
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Thank You. XO
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I’m so so sorry. I have been thinking of you since I first saw the news on Instagram. My heart just breaks – I thought this would be your rainbow and was so hoping it would be true. I know all too well how this feels. I wish I could do something to help – just know you are in my thoughts. Sending you wishes for strength and peace…
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Thank You. I was hoping this pregnancy would go in a different direction and be my rainbow. I am sorry that you also know this kind of loss. Thanks for the love. XO
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I am so so sorry to hear this news. Please know you are in my thoughts and I am sending you lots of love during this difficult time. Hugs.
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Thank You for the love, I appreciate it. XO
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So so so sorry.
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Thanks!!! XO
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Hugs hon. I wish I could say/do anything to ease the pain you are in. Sending you strength and peace.
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Thank You! xo
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My heart breaks for you. I don’t think I’ll ever understand why some women have to go through so much heartache getting to their take home baby. It’s not right and I can only hope and pray that things will get better soon…lots of love to you..xo
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Thanks for all the love. This is definitely unfair, but I’m looking forward to the days where things get better. XO
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I’m so sorry to hear this, I have been following your blog as you have been going throught ivf at about the same time as me. I found out today that there had been no growth since our last ultrasound 2 weeks ago. I thought of you and hoped that yours had kept going…
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I am so sorry that you are going through the same thing…how heartbreaking. My heart breaks for you and others who have to experience this same kind of sadness. Thinking of you. XO
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I am so sorry, what awful torture. It is unfair and so cruel. x
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Thank You. It is very unfair, but now that some time has past I am less angry and just ready to move forward. XO
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I’m so so sorry, I’m devastated for you, I know no words will make you feel any better, big hugs X
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Thank You. XO
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Awe love, I am so sorry to read this and hear this news. My heart breaks for you and I am sending positive thoughts your way. xo
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Thank You. XO
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Omigod I’m so so sorry. It is just more than unfair and not at all how it was supposed to go. Again, I’m sorry. xx
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Thank You. XO
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Oh, hon, I am so unbelievably sorry. This is just terrible news. Sending you so much love *hugs*
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Thank You. It’s definitely not the news I was expecting, but I’m slowly moving forward and ready for more answers in 2016.
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Oh my sweet friend, I am so sorry. All my love to you.
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Thanks. XO
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Oh no. I’m so sorry to hear this. How awful. Sending you hugs. So sad. X
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Thank You…I appreciate the virtual hugs. xo
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I’m completely heart broken for you xox I’m so sorry.
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Thank You. It’s not fair and hard, but I’m getting through it. xo
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I am so sorry for your loss!.The story looks similar to mine. My current RE is Dr.H from ORM. We recently started seeing a Reproductive Immunologist in Chicago. Her name is Dr. Kwak Kim. You can see the details here. https://hopingformyrainbow.wordpress.com
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I will have to look into Dr. Kwak Kim. How did you find this doctor? I have my follow up with DR. B at ORM in January to see what he thinks our next step is, but I have a feeling I am going to need more help than whatever he will recommend. xo
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We got her name from Dr.H when we asked about reproductive immunological questions. He dont believe in that kind of treatment as it is not a well researched field. But we found lot if research papers online and we are convinced. We went to chicago Dec first week. All i need is an answer for my 4 losses in 6-7 weeks. As Dr.H didnt have any answer after lot of tests, we went to chicago to see her. Right now i am waiting for my follow up phone consultation for my blood results. Will keep you updated!
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I look forward to hearing about what she has to say. I have asked a lot about my auto-immune issues and Dr. B and another doctor at ORM didn’t give my questions much thought, but I believe in it. All my losses are also between 6-7 weeks. I hope that you get some answers!!
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I am so, so sorry!
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Thank You. xo
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This breaks my heart. I am SO very sorry.
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Thank You!! xo
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